MINOR: protocol: add a default I/O callback and put it into the receiver

MINOR: protocol: add a default I/O callback and put it into the receiver

For now we're still using the protocol's default accept() function as
the I/O callback registered by the receiver into the poller. While
this is usable for most TCP connections where a listener is needed,
this is not suitable for UDP where a different handler is needed.

Let's make this configurable in the receiver just like the upper layer
is configurable for listeners. In order to ease stream protocols
handling, the protocols will now provide a default I/O callback
which will be preset into the receivers upon allocation so that
almost none of them has to deal with it.