migration: Make migration_has_failed() work even for CANCELLING

migration: Make migration_has_failed() work even for CANCELLING

No issue I hit, the change is only from code observation when I am looking
at a TLS premature termination issue.

We set CANCELLED very late, it means migration_has_failed() may not work
correctly if it's invoked before updating CANCELLING to CANCELLED.

Allow that state will make migration_has_failed() working as expected even
if it's invoked slightly earlier.

One current user is the multifd code for the TLS graceful termination,
where it's before updating to CANCELLED.

Reviewed-by: Juraj Marcin <jmarcin@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Fabiano Rosas <farosas@suse.de>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250918203937.200833-3-peterx@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Peter Xu <peterx@redhat.com>