gdbstub: replace exit calls with proper shutdown for softmmu

gdbstub: replace exit calls with proper shutdown for softmmu

This replaces the exit calls by shutdown requests, ensuring a proper
cleanup of Qemu. Features like net/vhost-vdpa.c are expecting
qemu_cleanup to be called to remove their last residuals.

Signed-off-by: Clément Chigot <chigot@adacore.com>
Reviewed-by: Alistair Francis <alistair.francis@wdc.com>
Message-ID: <20231003071427.188697-6-chigot@adacore.com>
Signed-off-by: Alistair Francis <alistair.francis@wdc.com>