bpo-38630: Fix subprocess.Popen.send_signal() race condition (GH-16984)

bpo-38630: Fix subprocess.Popen.send_signal() race condition (GH-16984)

On Unix, subprocess.Popen.send_signal() now polls the process status.
Polling reduces the risk of sending a signal to the wrong process if
the process completed, the Popen.returncode attribute is still None,
and the pid has been reassigned (recycled) to a new different
process.