block/nbd: ensure ->connection_thread is always valid

block/nbd: ensure ->connection_thread is always valid

Simplify lifetime management of BDRVNBDState->connect_thread by
delaying the possible cleanup of it until the BDRVNBDState itself goes
away.

This also reverts
 0267101af6 "block/nbd: fix possible use after free of s->connect_thread"
as now s->connect_thread can't be cleared until the very end.

Signed-off-by: Roman Kagan <rvkagan@yandex-team.ru>
 [vsementsov: rebase, revert 0267101af6 changes]
Signed-off-by: Vladimir Sementsov-Ogievskiy <vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
 [eblake: tweak comment]
Reviewed-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>
Message-Id: <20210610100802.5888-8-vsementsov@virtuozzo.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Blake <eblake@redhat.com>