bpf: Handle BPF_EXIST and BPF_NOEXIST for LPM trie

bpf: Handle BPF_EXIST and BPF_NOEXIST for LPM trie

Add the currently missing handling for the BPF_EXIST and BPF_NOEXIST
flags. These flags can be specified by users and are relevant since LPM
trie supports exact matches during update.

Fixes: b95a5c4db09b ("bpf: add a longest prefix match trie map implementation")
Reviewed-by: Toke Høiland-Jørgensen <toke@redhat.com>
Acked-by: Daniel Borkmann <daniel@iogearbox.net>
Signed-off-by: Hou Tao <houtao1@huawei.com>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20241206110622.1161752-4-houtao@huaweicloud.com
Signed-off-by: Alexei Starovoitov <ast@kernel.org>