reftable: make REFTABLE_UNUSED C99 compatible

reftable: make REFTABLE_UNUSED C99 compatible

Since f93b2a0424 (reftable/basics: introduce `REFTABLE_UNUSED`
annotation, 2025-02-18), the reftable library was migrated to
use an internal version of `UNUSED`, which unconditionally sets
a GNU __attribute__ to avoid warnings function parameters that
are not being used.

Make the definition conditional to prevent breaking the build
with non GNU compilers.

Reported-by: "Randall S. Becker" <rsbecker@nexbridge.com>
Signed-off-by: Carlo Marcelo Arenas Belón <carenas@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>