MEDIUM: buffer: add a new buf_wanted dummy buffer to report failed allocations

MEDIUM: buffer: add a new buf_wanted dummy buffer to report failed allocations

Doing so ensures that even when no memory is available, we leave the
channel in a sane condition. There's a special case in proto_http.c
regarding the compression, we simply pre-allocate the tmpbuf to point
to the dummy buffer. Not reusing &buf_empty for this allows the rest
of the code to differenciate an empty buffer that's not used from an
empty buffer that results from a failed allocation which has the same
semantics as a buffer full.