c++: make trait of incomplete type a permerror [PR109277]
An incomplete type argument to several traits is specified to be undefined
behavior in the library; since it's a compile-time property, we diagnose
it. But apparently some code was relying on the previous behavior of not
diagnosing. So let's make it a permerror.
The assert in cxx_incomplete_type_diagnostic didn't like that, and I don't
see the point of having the assert, so let's just remove it.