bcachefs: Don't delete unlinked inodes before logged op resume

bcachefs: Don't delete unlinked inodes before logged op resume

Previously, check_inode() would delete unlinked inodes if they weren't
on the deleted list - this code dating from before there was a deleted
list.

But, if we crash during a logged op (truncate or finsert/fcollapse) of
an unlinked file, logged op resume will get confused if the inode has
already been deleted - instead, just add it to the deleted list if it
needs to be there; delete_dead_inodes runs after logged op resume.

Signed-off-by: Kent Overstreet <kent.overstreet@linux.dev>