Introduce --with-ssl={openssl} as a configure option

Introduce --with-ssl={openssl} as a configure option

This is a replacement for the existing --with-openssl, extending the
logic to make easier the addition of new SSL libraries.  The grammar is
chosen to be similar to --with-uuid, where multiple values can be
chosen, with "openssl" as the only supported value for now.

The original switch, --with-openssl, is kept for compatibility.

Author: Daniel Gustafsson, Michael Paquier
Reviewed-by: Jacob Champion
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/FAB21FC8-0F62-434F-AA78-6BD9336D630A@yesql.se