iproute2: update to 6.9.0

iproute2: update to 6.9.0

Support for iptables action has been dropped. Remove tc-mod-iptables and related
patch (175-reduce-dynamic-syms.patch).

We also add the missing libbpf dependency for `ss` since iproute 8740ca9
("ss: add support for BPF socket-local storage") now means that `ss` requires
libbpf as well.

Fix 170-ip_tiny.patch, as the help text didn't match all the included functions.

Drop upstreamed patches 402-bpf-fix-warning-from-basename.patch
and 403-bpf-include-libgen.h-for-basename.patch.

All other patches automatically rebased.

Co-authored-by: Rany Hany <rany_hany@riseup.net>
Signed-off-by: Rui Salvaterra <rsalvaterra@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Rany Hany <rany_hany@riseup.net>