Use FILE_SHARE_WRITE and FILE_SHARE_DELETE when opening files on Windows

Use FILE_SHARE_WRITE and FILE_SHARE_DELETE when opening files on Windows

Many standard libraries(
[libc++](https://github.com/llvm/llvm-project/blob/main/libcxx/src/filesystem/posix_compat.h#L159),
[go](https://cs.opensource.google/go/go/+/refs/tags/go1.19.3:src/syscall/syscall_windows.go;l=331),
[rust](https://doc.rust-lang.org/src/std/os/windows/fs.rs.html#126-131)
) open files on windows with `FILE_SHARE_READ | FILE_SHARE_WRITE | FILE_SHARE_DELETE`
mode by default. Libarchive uses only `FILE_SHARE_READ`, so when file is
being opened by any program that uses these standard libraries
libarchive fails to open it. Here we change libarchive shared flags, so
it plays well with common practice in other programs.