various: do not include file names directly in error messages

various: do not include file names directly in error messages

git grep -l 'Failed to open /'|xargs sed -r -i 's|"Failed to open (/[^ ]+): %m"|"Failed to open %s: %m", "\1"|g'
git grep -l $'Failed to open \'/'|xargs sed -r -i $'s|"Failed to open \'(/[^ ]+)\': %m"|"Failed to open %s: %m", "\\1"|g'
git grep -l "Failed to open /"|xargs sed -r -i $'s|"Failed to open (/[^ ]+), ignoring: %m"|"Failed to open %s, ignoring: %m", "\\1"|g'
+ some manual fixups.