pg_upgrade: Add --set-char-signedness to set the default char signedness of new cluster.

pg_upgrade: Add --set-char-signedness to set the default char signedness of new cluster.

This change adds a new option --set-char-signedness to pg_upgrade. It
enables user to set arbitrary signedness during pg_upgrade. This helps
cases where user who knew they copied the v17 source cluster from
x86 (signedness=true) to ARM (signedness=false) can pg_upgrade
properly without the prerequisite of acquiring an x86 VM.

Reviewed-by: Noah Misch <noah@leadboat.com>
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CB11ADBC-0C3F-4FE0-A678-666EE80CBB07%40amazon.com