t1404: demonstrate two problems with reference transactions

t1404: demonstrate two problems with reference transactions

Currently, a loose reference is deleted even before locking the
`packed-refs` file, let alone deleting any packed version of the
reference. This leads to two problems, demonstrated by two new tests:

* While a reference is being deleted, other processes might see the
  old, packed value of the reference for a moment before the packed
  version is deleted. Normally this would be hard to observe, but we
  can prolong the window by locking the `packed-refs` file externally
  before running `update-ref`, then unlocking it before `update-ref`'s
  attempt to acquire the lock times out.

* If the `packed-refs` file is locked so long that `update-ref` fails
  to lock it, then the reference can be left permanently in the
  incorrect state described in the previous point.

In a moment, both problems will be fixed.

Signed-off-by: Michael Haggerty <mhagger@alum.mit.edu>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>