drm/xe: Add staging tree for VM binds

drm/xe: Add staging tree for VM binds

Concurrent VM bind staging and zapping of PTEs from a userptr notifier
do not work because the view of PTEs is not stable. VM binds cannot
acquire the notifier lock during staging, as memory allocations are
required. To resolve this race condition, use a staging tree for VM
binds that is committed only under the userptr notifier lock during the
final step of the bind. This ensures a consistent view of the PTEs in
the userptr notifier.

A follow up may only use staging for VM in fault mode as this is the
only mode in which the above race exists.

v3:
 - Drop zap PTE change (Thomas)
 - s/xe_pt_entry/xe_pt_entry_staging (Thomas)

Suggested-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org>
Fixes: e8babb280b5e ("drm/xe: Convert multiple bind ops into single job")
Fixes: a708f6501c69 ("drm/xe: Update PT layer with better error handling")
Signed-off-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Link: https://patchwork.freedesktop.org/patch/msgid/20250228073058.59510-5-thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com
Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>