gh-137433: Fix deadlock with stop-the-world and daemon threads (gh-137735)

gh-137433: Fix deadlock with stop-the-world and daemon threads (gh-137735)

There was a deadlock originally seen by Memray when a daemon thread
enabled or disabled profiling while the interpreter was shutting down.
I think this could also happen with garbage collection, but I haven't
seen that in practice.

The daemon thread could be hung while trying acquire the global rwmutex
that prevents overlapping global and per-interpreter stop-the-world events.
Since it already held the main interpreter's stop-the-world lock, it
also deadlocked the main thread, which is trying to perform interpreter
finalization.

Swap the order of lock acquisition to prevent this deadlock.
Additionally, refactor `_PyParkingLot_Park` so that the global buckets
hashtable is left in a clean state if the thread is hung in
`PyEval_AcquireThread`.