commit-graph: allow cross-alternate chains

commit-graph: allow cross-alternate chains

In an environment like a fork network, it is helpful to have a
commit-graph chain that spans both the base repo and the fork repo. The
fork is usually a small set of data on top of the large repo, but
sometimes the fork is much larger. For example, git-for-windows/git has
almost double the number of commits as git/git because it rebases its
commits on every major version update.

To allow cross-alternate commit-graph chains, we need a few pieces:

1. When looking for a graph-{hash}.graph file, check all alternates.

2. When merging commit-graph chains, do not merge across alternates.

3. When writing a new commit-graph chain based on a commit-graph file
   in another object directory, do not allow success if the base file
   has of the name "commit-graph" instead of
   "commit-graphs/graph-{hash}.graph".

Signed-off-by: Derrick Stolee <dstolee@microsoft.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>