merge-base --fork-point: extract libified function

merge-base --fork-point: extract libified function

We need this functionality in the builtin rebase.

Note: to make this function truly reusable, we have to switch the call
get_merges_many_dirty() to get_merges_many() because we want the commit
flags to be reset (otherwise, subsequent get_merge_bases() calls would
obtain incorrect results). This did not matter when the function was
called in `git rev-parse --fork-point` because in that command, the
process definitely did not traverse any commits before exiting.

Signed-off-by: Pratik Karki <predatoramigo@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Johannes Schindelin <johannes.schindelin@gmx.de>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>