setup: add gentle version of read_gitfile

setup: add gentle version of read_gitfile

read_gitfile will die on most error cases. This makes it unsuitable
for speculative calls. Extract the core logic and provide a gentle
version that returns NULL on failure.

The first usecase of the new gentle version will be to probe for
submodules during git clean.

Helped-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>
Helped-by: Jeff King <peff@peff.net>
Signed-off-by: Erik Elfström <erik.elfstrom@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>