strmap: take advantage of FLEXPTR_ALLOC_STR when relevant

strmap: take advantage of FLEXPTR_ALLOC_STR when relevant

By default, we do not use a mempool and strdup_strings is true; in this
case, we can avoid both an extra allocation and an extra free by just
over-allocating for the strmap_entry leaving enough space at the end to
copy the key.  FLEXPTR_ALLOC_STR exists for exactly this purpose, so
make use of it.

Also, adjust the case when we are using a memory pool and strdup_strings
is true to just do one allocation from the memory pool instead of two so
that the strmap_clear() and strmap_remove() code can just avoid freeing
the key in all cases.

Signed-off-by: Elijah Newren <newren@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>