built-in rebase: reinstate `checkout -q` behavior where appropriate

built-in rebase: reinstate `checkout -q` behavior where appropriate

When we converted a `git checkout -q $onto^0` call to use
`reset_head()`, we inadvertently incurred a change from a twoway_merge
to a oneway_merge, as if we wanted a `git reset --hard` instead.

This has performance ramifications under certain, though, as the
oneway_merge needs to lstat() every single index entry whereas
twoway_merge does not.

So let's go back to the old behavior.

Signed-off-by: Johannes Schindelin <johannes.schindelin@gmx.de>
Signed-off-by: Junio C Hamano <gitster@pobox.com>