datatype: fix leak and cleanup reference counting for struct datatype

datatype: fix leak and cleanup reference counting for struct datatype

Test `./tests/shell/run-tests.sh -V tests/shell/testcases/maps/nat_addr_port`
fails:

==118== 195 (112 direct, 83 indirect) bytes in 1 blocks are definitely lost in loss record 3 of 3
==118==    at 0x484682C: calloc (vg_replace_malloc.c:1554)
==118==    by 0x48A39DD: xmalloc (utils.c:37)
==118==    by 0x48A39DD: xzalloc (utils.c:76)
==118==    by 0x487BDFD: datatype_alloc (datatype.c:1205)
==118==    by 0x487BDFD: concat_type_alloc (datatype.c:1288)
==118==    by 0x488229D: stmt_evaluate_nat_map (evaluate.c:3786)
==118==    by 0x488229D: stmt_evaluate_nat (evaluate.c:3892)
==118==    by 0x488229D: stmt_evaluate (evaluate.c:4450)
==118==    by 0x488328E: rule_evaluate (evaluate.c:4956)
==118==    by 0x48ADC71: nft_evaluate (libnftables.c:552)
==118==    by 0x48AEC29: nft_run_cmd_from_buffer (libnftables.c:595)
==118==    by 0x402983: main (main.c:534)

I think the reference handling for datatype is wrong. It was introduced
by commit 01a13882bb59 ('src: add reference counter for dynamic
datatypes').

We don't notice it most of the time, because instances are statically
allocated, where datatype_get()/datatype_free() is a NOP.

Fix and rework.

- Commit 01a13882bb59 comments "The reference counter of any newly
  allocated datatype is set to zero". That seems not workable.
  Previously, functions like datatype_clone() would have returned the
  refcnt set to zero. Some callers would then then set the refcnt to one, but
  some wouldn't (set_datatype_alloc()). Calling datatype_free() with a
  refcnt of zero will overflow to UINT_MAX and leak:

       if (--dtype->refcnt > 0)
          return;

  While there could be schemes with such asymmetric counting that juggle the
  appropriate number of datatype_get() and datatype_free() calls, this is
  confusing and error prone. The common pattern is that every
  alloc/clone/get/ref is paired with exactly one unref/free.

  Let datatype_clone() return references with refcnt set 1 and in
  general be always clear about where we transfer ownership (take a
  reference) and where we need to release it.

- set_datatype_alloc() needs to consistently return ownership to the
  reference. Previously, some code paths would and others wouldn't.

- Replace

    datatype_set(key, set_datatype_alloc(dtype, key->byteorder))

  with a __datatype_set() with takes ownership.

Fixes: 01a13882bb59 ('src: add reference counter for dynamic datatypes')
Signed-off-by: Thomas Haller <thaller@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Pablo Neira Ayuso <pablo@netfilter.org>