aio-posix: fix io_uring with external events

aio-posix: fix io_uring with external events

When external event sources are disabled fdmon-io_uring falls back to
fdmon-poll.  The ->need_wait() callback needs to watch for this so it
can return true when external event sources are disabled.

It is also necessary to call ->wait() when AioHandlers have changed
because io_uring is asynchronous and we must submit new sqes.

Both of these changes to ->need_wait() together fix tests/test-aio -p
/aio/external-client, which failed with:

  test-aio: tests/test-aio.c:404: test_aio_external_client: Assertion `aio_poll(ctx, false)' failed.

Reported-by: Julia Suvorova <jusual@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Stefano Garzarella <sgarzare@redhat.com>
Message-id: 20200319163559.117903-1-stefanha@redhat.com
Signed-off-by: Stefan Hajnoczi <stefanha@redhat.com>