Allow strongSwan to be spawned as non-root user

Allow strongSwan to be spawned as non-root user

This patch allows for giving strongSwan only the runtime capabilities it
needs, rather than full root privileges.

Adds preprocessor directives which allow strongSwan to be configured to
 1) start up as a non-root user
 2) avoid modprobe()'ing IPsec kernel modules into the kernel, which
    would normally require root or CAP_SYS_MODULE

Additionally, some small mods to charon/libstrongswan ensure that charon
fully supports starting as a non-root user.

Tested with strongSwan 5.5.3.