core: rework unit name validation and manipulation logic

core: rework unit name validation and manipulation logic

A variety of changes:

- Make sure all our calls distuingish OOM from other errors if OOM is
  not the only error possible.

- Be much stricter when parsing escaped paths, do not accept trailing or
  leading escaped slashes.

- Change unit validation to take a bit mask for allowing plain names,
  instance names or template names or an combination thereof.

- Refuse manipulating invalid unit name