xfs: idiotproof defer op type configuration

xfs: idiotproof defer op type configuration

Source kernel commit: bc9f2b7c8a732d896753709cc9d495780ba7e9f9

Recently, we forgot to port a new defer op type to xfsprogs, which
caused us some userspace pain.  Reorganize the way we make libxfs
clients supply defer op type information so that all type information
has to be provided at build time instead of risky runtime dynamic
configuration.

Signed-off-by: Darrick J. Wong <darrick.wong@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Eric Sandeen <sandeen@redhat.com>
Reviewed-by: Brian Foster <bfoster@redhat.com>
Signed-off-by: Eric Sandeen <sandeen@sandeen.net>