nwfilter: skip some interfaces on filter update

nwfilter: skip some interfaces on filter update

When a filter is updated, only those interfaces must have their old
rules cleared that either reference the filter directly or indirectly
through another filter. Remember between the different steps of the
instantiation of the filters which interfaces must be skipped. I am
using a hash map to remember the names of the interfaces and store a
bogus pointer to ~0 into it that need not be freed.