- create a new system where we can decorate an event method

- create a new system where we can decorate an event method
with @_legacy_signature, will inspect incoming listener functions
to see if they match an older signature, will wrap into a newer sig
- add an event listen argument named=True, will send all args as
kw args so that event listeners can be written with **kw, any combination
of names
- add a doc system to events that writes out the various calling styles
for a given event, produces deprecation messages automatically.
a little concerned that it's a bit verbose but will look at it up
on RTD for awhile to get a feel.
- change the calling signature for bulk update/delete events - we have
the BulkUD object right there, and there's at least six or seven things
people might want to see, so just send the whole BulkUD in
[ticket:2775]