change card deck margin strategy

change card deck margin strategy

- Instead of negative left/right margins, we selectively apply margins to the cards as needed. This way the first and last child never receive a left and right margin (respectively), so we don't need to negative indent those at the .card-deck level.

- Drops the margin-bottom override on the .card because there's no more default margin there.

- Drop the margin-bottom from the .card-deck to match our lack of margins on the card.

This and the previous commit fixes #19883.