rust: convert `Arc` to use `Refcount`

rust: convert `Arc` to use `Refcount`

With `Refcount` type created, `Arc` can use `Refcount` instead of
calling into FFI directly.

Signed-off-by: Gary Guo <gary@garyguo.net>
Signed-off-by: Boqun Feng <boqun.feng@gmail.com>
Signed-off-by: Peter Zijlstra (Intel) <peterz@infradead.org>
Reviewed-by: Alexandre Courbot <acourbot@nvidia.com>
Reviewed-by: Benno Lossin <lossin@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Elle Rhumsaa <elle@weathered-steel.dev>
Link: https://lore.kernel.org/r/20250723233312.3304339-4-gary@kernel.org