[3.6] bpo-29822: make inspect.isabstract() work during __init_subclass__ (#1979)

[3.6] bpo-29822: make inspect.isabstract() work during __init_subclass__ (#1979)

At the time when an abstract base class' __init_subclass__ runs,
ABCMeta.__new__ has not yet finished running, so in the presence of
__init_subclass__, inspect.isabstract() can no longer depend only on
TPFLAGS_IS_ABSTRACT.
(cherry picked from commit fcfe80ec2592fed8b3941c79056a8737abef7d3b)