perf tool_pmu: Make tool PMU events respect enable/disable

perf tool_pmu: Make tool PMU events respect enable/disable

Tool PMU events (duration_time, user_time, system_time) currently
count from when the event is opened to when it is read. This causes
issues with features like the delay option (-D) or control fd, where
events are opened but should not start counting immediately.

Make these events behave more like regular counters by implementing
proper enable and disable support. Add accumulated_time to struct
evsel to track time while enabled, and implement enable/disable CPU
callbacks to start/stop counting.

Also generalize userspace PMU mixed group handling. Userspace synthetic
PMUs (type > PERF_PMU_TYPE_PE_END) do not have kernel implementations and
cannot be grouped in the kernel (opened with group_fd = -1), and are
skipped by kernel enable/disable calls. Iterate over group members in
userspace and manually enable/disable any members if the leader or the
member is a non-perf-event open PMU, and synchronize their disabled flags.

Closes: https://lore.kernel.org/linux-perf-users/20260517093650.2540920-1-nigro.fra@gmail.com/
Fixes: b71f46a6a7086175 ("perf stat: Remove hard coded shadow metrics")
Reported-by: Francesco Nigro <nigro.fra@gmail.com>
Assisted-by: Antigravity:gemini-3-flash
Signed-off-by: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Cc: Adrian Hunter <adrian.hunter@intel.com>
Cc: Ian Rogers <irogers@google.com>
Cc: Ingo Molnar <mingo@redhat.com>
Cc: James Clark <james.clark@linaro.org>
Cc: Jiri Olsa <jolsa@kernel.org>
Cc: Namhyung Kim <namhyung@kernel.org>
Cc: Peter Zijlstra <peterz@infradead.org>
Cc: Thomas Richter <tmricht@linux.ibm.com>
Signed-off-by: Arnaldo Carvalho de Melo <acme@redhat.com>