iommufd/driver: Add iommufd_hw_queue_depend/undepend() helpers

iommufd/driver: Add iommufd_hw_queue_depend/undepend() helpers

NVIDIA Virtual Command Queue is one of the iommufd users exposing vIOMMU
features to user space VMs. Its hardware has a strict rule when mapping
and unmapping multiple global CMDQVs to/from a VM-owned VINTF, requiring
mappings in ascending order and unmappings in descending order.

The tegra241-cmdqv driver can apply the rule for a mapping in the LVCMDQ
allocation handler. However, it can't do the same for an unmapping since
user space could start random destroy calls breaking the rule, while the
destroy op in the driver level can't reject a destroy call as it returns
void.

Add iommufd_hw_queue_depend/undepend for-driver helpers, allowing LVCMDQ
allocator to refcount_inc() a sibling LVCMDQ object and LVCMDQ destroyer
to refcount_dec(), so that iommufd core will help block a random destroy
call that breaks the rule.

This is a bit of compromise, because a driver might end up with abusing
the API that deadlocks the objects. So restrict the API to a dependency
between two driver-allocated objects of the same type, as iommufd would
unlikely build any core-level dependency in this case. And encourage to
use the macro version that currently supports the HW QUEUE objects only.

Link: https://patch.msgid.link/r/2735c32e759c82f2e6c87cb32134eaf09b7589b5.1752126748.git.nicolinc@nvidia.com
Reviewed-by: Lu Baolu <baolu.lu@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Pranjal Shrivastava <praan@google.com>
Reviewed-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Nicolin Chen <nicolinc@nvidia.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>