net: bonding: fix possible peer notify event loss or dup issue

net: bonding: fix possible peer notify event loss or dup issue

If the send_peer_notif counter and the peer event notify are not synchronized.
It may cause problems such as the loss or dup of peer notify event.

Before this patch:
- If should_notify_peers is true and the lock for send_peer_notif-- fails, peer
  event may be sent again in next mii_monitor loop, because should_notify_peers
  is still true.
- If should_notify_peers is true and the lock for send_peer_notif-- succeeded,
  but the lock for peer event fails, the peer event will be lost.

This patch locks the RTNL for send_peer_notif, events, and commit simultaneously.

Fixes: 07a4ddec3ce9 ("bonding: add an option to specify a delay between peer notifications")
Cc: Jay Vosburgh <jv@jvosburgh.net>
Cc: Andrew Lunn <andrew+netdev@lunn.ch>
Cc: Eric Dumazet <edumazet@google.com>
Cc: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>
Cc: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>
Cc: Hangbin Liu <liuhangbin@gmail.com>
Cc: Nikolay Aleksandrov <razor@blackwall.org>
Cc: Vincent Bernat <vincent@bernat.ch>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Tonghao Zhang <tonghao@bamaicloud.com>
Acked-by: Jay Vosburgh <jv@jvosburgh.net>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251021050933.46412-1-tonghao@bamaicloud.com
Signed-off-by: Paolo Abeni <pabeni@redhat.com>