btrfs: convert BUG_ON in btrfs_reloc_cow_block() to proper error handling

btrfs: convert BUG_ON in btrfs_reloc_cow_block() to proper error handling

[ Upstream commit 6a4730b325aaa48f7a5d5ba97aff0a955e2d9cec ]

This BUG_ON is meant to catch backref cache problems, but these can
arise from either bugs in the backref cache or corruption in the extent
tree.  Fix it to be a proper error.

Reviewed-by: Boris Burkov <boris@bur.io>
Signed-off-by: Josef Bacik <josef@toxicpanda.com>
Reviewed-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: David Sterba <dsterba@suse.com>
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>