hostapd: Fix dynamic ACCEPT_ACL management over control interface
hostapd_disassoc_accept_mac() was called after a new accept MAC address
was added (ACCEPT_ACL ADD_MAC), but this function should have been
called after an accept MAC address was removed and accept MAC list was
cleared to disconnect a STA which is not listed in the update accept MAC
address list. Fix this by moving the call to places where a connected
STA can actually end up losing its previously present accept entry.