CLEANUP: protocol: make sure the connect_* functions always receive a dst

CLEANUP: protocol: make sure the connect_* functions always receive a dst

Some of the protocol-level ->connect() functions currently dereference
the connection's destination address while others test it and return an
error. There's normally no more non-bogus code path that calls such
functions without a valid destination address on the connection, so
let's unify these functions and just place a BUG_ON() there, and drop
the useless test that's supposed to return an internal error.