net/smc: bpf: Introduce generic hook for handshake flow

net/smc: bpf: Introduce generic hook for handshake flow

The introduction of IPPROTO_SMC enables eBPF programs to determine
whether to use SMC based on the context of socket creation, such as
network namespaces, PID and comm name, etc.

As a subsequent enhancement, to introduce a new generic hook that
allows decisions on whether to use SMC or not at runtime, including
but not limited to local/remote IP address or ports.

User can write their own implememtion via bpf_struct_ops now to choose
whether to use SMC or not before TCP 3rd handshake to be comleted.

Signed-off-by: D. Wythe <alibuda@linux.alibaba.com>
Signed-off-by: Martin KaFai Lau <martin.lau@kernel.org>
Reviewed-by: Dust Li <dust.li@linux.alibaba.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251107035632.115950-3-alibuda@linux.alibaba.com