Add support to zeroize plaintext in S3 record layer

Add support to zeroize plaintext in S3 record layer

Some applications want even all plaintext copies beeing
zeroized. However, currently plaintext residuals are kept in rbuf
within the s3 record layer.

This patch add the option SSL_OP_CLEANSE_PLAINTEXT to its friends to
optionally enable cleansing of decrypted plaintext data.

Reviewed-by: Matt Caswell <matt@openssl.org>
Reviewed-by: Shane Lontis <shane.lontis@oracle.com>
Reviewed-by: Dmitry Belyavskiy <beldmit@gmail.com>
(Merged from https://github.com/openssl/openssl/pull/12251)