drm/pagemap, drm/xe: Ensure that the devmem allocation is idle before use

drm/pagemap, drm/xe: Ensure that the devmem allocation is idle before use

In situations where no system memory is migrated to devmem, and in
upcoming patches where another GPU is performing the migration to
the newly allocated devmem buffer, there is nothing to ensure any
ongoing clear to the devmem allocation or async eviction from the
devmem allocation is complete.

Address that by passing a struct dma_fence down to the copy
functions, and ensure it is waited for before migration is marked
complete.

v3:
- New patch.
v4:
- Update the logic used for determining when to wait for the
  pre_migrate_fence.
- Update the logic used for determining when to warn for the
  pre_migrate_fence since the scheduler fences apparently
  can signal out-of-order.
v5:
- Fix a UAF (CI)
- Remove references to source P2P migration (Himal)
- Put the pre_migrate_fence after migration.
v6:
- Pipeline the pre_migrate_fence dependency (Matt Brost)

Fixes: c5b3eb5a906c ("drm/xe: Add GPUSVM device memory copy vfunc functions")
Cc: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Cc: <stable@vger.kernel.org> # v6.15+
Signed-off-by: Thomas Hellström <thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com>
Reviewed-by: Matthew Brost <matthew.brost@intel.com>
Acked-by: Maarten Lankhorst <maarten.lankhorst@linux.intel.com> # For merging through drm-xe.
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20251219113320.183860-4-thomas.hellstrom@linux.intel.com