Bluetooth: mgmt: fix locking in unpair_device/disconnect_sync

Bluetooth: mgmt: fix locking in unpair_device/disconnect_sync

Dereferencing RCU-protected pointers outside critical sections is
invalid and may lead to UAF.

Take hdev->lock for hci_conn lookup and hci_abort_conn().  Don't use RCU
to ensure the conn is fully initialized at this point.

Fixes: 227a0cdf4a028 ("Bluetooth: MGMT: Fix not generating command complete for MGMT_OP_DISCONNECT")
Signed-off-by: Pauli Virtanen <pav@iki.fi>
Signed-off-by: Luiz Augusto von Dentz <luiz.von.dentz@intel.com>