manager: improve message about Reload/Reexec requests

manager: improve message about Reload/Reexec requests

If we fail to get the necessary information, let's just not print that
part of the message. 'n/a' looks pretty ugly.

I used a bunch of ternary operators instead of seperate log lines because
with two components that might or might not be there, we need four different
combinations.

Also, the unit name doesn't need to be quoted, it's always printable.