RDMA: Add ib_copy_validate_udata_in()

RDMA: Add ib_copy_validate_udata_in()

Add a new function to consolidate the required compatibility pattern for
driver data of checking against a minimum size, and checking for unknown
trailing bytes to be zero into a function.

This new function uses the faster copy_struct_from_user() instead of
trying to directly check for zero.

Incorporate the common ibdev_dbg() logging directly into the error paths
of the helper.

Link: https://patch.msgid.link/r/3-v3-bd56dd443069+49-bnxt_re_uapi_jgg@nvidia.com
Tested-by: Sriharsha Basavapatna <sriharsha.basavapatna@broadcom.com>
Acked-by: Sriharsha Basavapatna <sriharsha.basavapatna@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Jason Gunthorpe <jgg@nvidia.com>