Bluetooth: ISO: avoid deadlocks in iso_sock_timeout

Bluetooth: ISO: avoid deadlocks in iso_sock_timeout

iso_sock_timeout() takes lock_sock, so sync disabling the timer while
holding that lock may deadlock.

iso_sock_timeout() may also run concurrently with iso_conn_del(), which
leads to UAF

        [Task 1]                      [Task hdev->workqueue]
        iso_sock_timeout              iso_conn_del
          iso_conn_hold_unless_zero     iso_chan_del
                           `------------> iso_conn_put
                                      caller frees hcon
          iso_conn_put
            iso_conn_free
              conn->hcon->iso_data = NULL; /* UAF */

Fix the deadlock by removing the disable from the lock_sock sections.
Move the timer from iso_conn to iso_pinfo to decouple it from iso_conn
which may need to be freed in lock_sock section. Convert some of the
clear_timer to disable_timer.

Fixes: dc26097bdb86 ("Bluetooth: ISO: Use kref to track lifetime of iso_conn")
Signed-off-by: Pauli Virtanen <pav@iki.fi>
Signed-off-by: Luiz Augusto von Dentz <luiz.von.dentz@intel.com>