bnxt_en: Support QOS and TPID settings for the SRIOV VLAN

bnxt_en: Support QOS and TPID settings for the SRIOV VLAN

With recent changes in the .ndo_set_vf_*() guidelines, resubmitting
this patch that was reverted eariler in 2023:

c27153682eac ("Revert "bnxt_en: Support QOS and TPID settings for the SRIOV VLAN")

Add these missing settings in the .ndo_set_vf_vlan() method.
Older firmware does not support the TPID setting so check for
proper support.

Remove the unused BNXT_VF_QOS flag.

Reviewed-by: Simon Horman <horms@kernel.org>
Signed-off-by: Sreekanth Reddy <sreekanth.reddy@broadcom.com>
Signed-off-by: Michael Chan <michael.chan@broadcom.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20240828183235.128948-4-michael.chan@broadcom.com
Signed-off-by: Jakub Kicinski <kuba@kernel.org>