spi: spi-nxp-fspi: Add OCT-DTR mode support

spi: spi-nxp-fspi: Add OCT-DTR mode support

[ Upstream commit 0f67557763accbdd56681f17ed5350735198c57b ]

Add OCT-DTR mode support in default, since flexspi do not supports
swapping bytes on a 16 bit boundary in OCT-DTR mode, so mark swap16
as false.

lx2160a do not support DQS, so add a quirk to disable DTR mode for this
platform.

Signed-off-by: Haibo Chen <haibo.chen@nxp.com>
Reviewed-by: Frank Li <Frank.Li@nxp.com>
Link: https://patch.msgid.link/20250917-flexspi-ddr-v2-5-bb9fe2a01889@nxp.com
Signed-off-by: Mark Brown <broonie@kernel.org>
Stable-dep-of: 40ad64ac25bb ("spi: nxp-fspi: Propagate fwnode in ACPI case as well")
Signed-off-by: Sasha Levin <sashal@kernel.org>