MEDIUM: poller: separate the wait time from the wake events

MEDIUM: poller: separate the wait time from the wake events

We have been abusing the do_poll()'s timeout for a while, making it zero
whenever there is some known activity. The problem this poses is that it
complicates activity diagnostic by incrementing the poll_exp field for
each known activity. It also requires extra computations that could be
avoided.

This change passes a "wake" argument to say that the poller must not
sleep. This simplifies the operations and allows one to differenciate
expirations from activity.