Tighten the concurrent abort check during decoding.

Tighten the concurrent abort check during decoding.

During decoding of an in-progress or prepared transaction, we detect
concurrent abort with an error code ERRCODE_TRANSACTION_ROLLBACK. That is
not sufficient because a callback can decide to throw that error code
at other times as well.

Reported-by: Tom Lane
Author: Amit Kapila
Reviewed-by: Dilip Kumar
Discussion: https://postgr.es/m/CAA4eK1KCjPRS4aZHB48QMM4J8XOC1+TD8jo-4Yu84E+MjwqVhA@mail.gmail.com